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WHIT3C3LL
07-20-2014, 16:02
Ok so facebook groups are areas of drama especially when it involves spouses. Well an issue has arisen and has been going on for the past 5 days where my wife is being drug through the mud after another spouse got pissy that she couldn't sell her very expensive stuff on a sell page. Were talking coach purses and Louie vaton shit. Wife asked to drop the price because she can get the same stuff new as this woman was trying to sell used. Long story short she called my wife a hussy wife then called her a twat waffle and is on blast on a sell page. I've left this alone up until just 5 mins ago when I found out her husband is an mp here and she has my ets date, my rank, my address and other info that a spouse can't get a hold of unless her mp husband found it and gave it to her. So needless to say im pissed and DAMN close to making a trip to the mp station and chew a ssg out even though im a sgt. Wtf should I do before I go and lose my rank over this petty bullshit that has officially gone too far.

Brian
07-20-2014, 16:11
Well you could ask the admins to delete them and ban her, put that's the small problem. If you feel he is accessing your personal info for non official duty use I would either contact chain of command, his and yours(so they can have your back) or you can always file a complaint with your IG office. You can do all of the above. Just make sure you get copies of everything electronic related. military won't see it as reasonable to look for digital evidence in this matter. You will have to provide most if not all of the evidence. That is a pretty big violation he is making. I'm also willing to be the is good at covering his tracks. Your chain of command, with IG should be at least reasonable in pursuing this matter. I can't say the same about his.


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JTFRYE
07-20-2014, 16:33
Well you could ask the admins to delete them and ban her, put that's the small problem. If you feel he is accessing your personal info for non official duty use I would either contact chain of command, his and yours(so they can have your back) or you can always file a complaint with your IG office. You can do all of the above. Just make sure you get copies of everything electronic related. military won't see it as reasonable to look for digital evidence in this matter. You will have to provide most if not all of the evidence. That is a pretty big violation he is making. I'm also willing to be the is good at covering his tracks. Your chain of command, with IG should be at least reasonable in pursuing this matter. I can't say the same about his.


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I agree with this. That's the nco in me talking. The Marine in me would say kick his ass sea bass


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Brian
07-20-2014, 16:35
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Just to add a little humor and hopefully make you smile.


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WHIT3C3LL
07-20-2014, 18:41
Thanks guys talked to the husband who to my surprise was cid. Got ourselves on the same page now trying to talk to the wives to fix this shit. And come to find out he wasn't using any of my info which makes me wonder where it came from but im no longer concerned

Port66
07-20-2014, 18:47
yeah print it all out before she starts deleting and retreating

Brian
07-21-2014, 05:29
Thanks guys talked to the husband who to my surprise was cid. Got ourselves on the same page now trying to talk to the wives to fix this shit. And come to find out he wasn't using any of my info which makes me wonder where it came from but im no longer concerned

That's good, glad you are getting it strait. My wife finds great deals on those pages but they come with all of the drama. It's like housing super sized.


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WHIT3C3LL
07-21-2014, 05:31
That's good, glad you are getting it strait. My wife finds great deals on those pages but they come with all of the drama. It's like housing super sized.


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Real house wives of fort/joint base/ camp (insert name) exactly how I see it

Brian
07-21-2014, 05:37
Real house wives of fort/joint base/ camp (insert name) exactly how I see it

LOL exactly. My wife tried to get me a PS4 Saturday, made plans at 1100 to meet at 200, so dude calls her at 100 and says don't bother coming I just sold it. Fury has been flying around. I'm just shocked because she hates when I play games.


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WHIT3C3LL
07-21-2014, 05:40
Lmfao. Should have heard my wife when I got my x1 lol. Needless to say $200 for it kind of sweetened the deal lmfao

sickpuppy79
07-21-2014, 07:53
U can get all that info from web cost money but u can get anythg off the web

Rickety Rob
07-21-2014, 09:28
CID or not, giving your personal information is illegal but I will say this...acquiring that information isn't hard for a person who has ties to the military.

Whether she got it from him or from someone else, its not hard.

As far as for the shit that happened online, like everyone else said, copy that shit, print it out and keep it for your records.

Find a way so she gets barred from the page, that way she doesn't get into the same shit again with someone else.

All in all, its petty stuff and it's something to really not get mad at.

She's obviously desperate for money, cause if she wasn't, she wouldn't be selling it to begin with.

Plus, for a military wife to have that kind stuff, only tells me she either blew her hubby's deployment money or she racked up a ton of bills.

JTFRYE
07-21-2014, 12:15
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Just to add a little humor and hopefully make you smile.


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I'll show you how we really are


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KaNtSt0PMeH
07-21-2014, 17:53
Lol oh whatever JT we all know its true, haha

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JTFRYE
07-21-2014, 18:46
Lol oh whatever JT we all know its true, haha

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That's why almost every AIRMAN I run across says "I was gonna be a Marine, but (insert excuse)"


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KaNtSt0PMeH
07-21-2014, 19:07
I was going to be a marine but my ASVAB was too high.

Haha

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WHIT3C3LL
07-21-2014, 19:23
I was going to be a marine but my ASVAB was too high.

Haha

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Lmfao

WHIT3C3LL
07-21-2014, 19:52
That's why almost every AIRMAN I run across says "I was gonna be a Marine, but (insert excuse)"


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I was going to be a marine but... oh wait no I wasnt lmfao

JTFRYE
07-22-2014, 05:39
I was going to be a marine but my ASVAB was too high.

Haha

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Yea yea yea. I was gonna be an airman, but I was too much of a man.


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Brian
07-22-2014, 07:08
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JTFRYE
07-22-2014, 08:09
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Your just jealous that we can do that and you can't. Hahahaha


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Brian
07-22-2014, 08:38
Your just jealous that we can do that and you can't. Hahahaha


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I'd only be jealous if it was with these Marines...

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JTFRYE
07-22-2014, 08:42
I'd only be jealous if it was with these Marines...

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Great part is, they are all what we Marines call whiskey mikes "walking mattresses"


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Brian
07-22-2014, 08:45
Great part is, they are all what we Marines call whiskey mikes "walking mattresses"


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That should be added to the military slang thread if it hasn't been already.


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JTFRYE
07-22-2014, 08:46
Haha absolutely not. Last thing we need is a female Marine going apeshit over the term whiskey mike


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WHIT3C3LL
07-22-2014, 08:59
Lmfao

jxspyder
07-22-2014, 12:32
Haha absolutely not. Last thing we need is a female Marine going apeshit over the term whiskey mike


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I don't see our HR department really caring, to be honest.

NwG_SnakeEyes
07-22-2014, 13:15
I was going to be a marine but my ASVAB was too high.

Haha

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Lmfao!